Here’s some great videos I found while browsing youtube this morning. It’s alittle long (I think just over 20 minute’s) but this stuff gives out some great in info that will really help you figure out what attracts women.
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Category : Help with Pick Up
Category : What Attracts Women
One problem I see with a lot of guys is that they seem to have low self-esteem. A lot of guys think that some women are out of their league. We all know that gorgeous girls know they’re gorgeous and will flaunt their looks openly. These girls tend to dominate in a relationship and in the majority of cases, if you use regular seduction methods, they may not work and will not take a second look at you.
In reality though no girl is out of any guy’s league, as long as the right attraction methods are put to use. These tips will help when it comes to getting a higher standard of girl and consistently succeed at the same time.
Here’s my top tips:
- You have to turn things around and make girls run after you instead. You have to take them down from their pedestal by not showering them with attention for a change, since this is something that girls have started to crave and expect.
Never look at girls the way other guys do and simply act totally indifferent when you flirt with them. Also, make sure that the flirting is done subtly and with the utmost care.
- It would also be highly essential to ensure that you don’t make girls feel special in any way. As a matter of fact, you need to make girls think that there is something special about you instead and that you are the prize that needs to be won.
You can even take a bold step and show her that she is boring you while showing very little interest in anything she has to offer; however, ensure that you do not offend her too much by doing so. You may think this is crazy, but as time goes by, rapport will build up and girls will start getting curious because you are so different from all the other guys out there.
Category : What Attracts Women
How do you get a woman to “want” you?
Well this is a question I hear a lot from people. Many guys who I talk to have this problem. They meet attractive girls, but don’t know how to create that emotional spark and they miss out on getting the girl because of it.
Luckly the answer is pretty simple. In order to get a girl to want you, attraction must be created. Now to be honest there are a ton of ways you can create attraction. Most of them involve the proper kind of body language and the use of cocky/funny techniques.
But there is an easy and effective way you can make a woman instantly want you when you meet her. It’s simple, all you have to do is:
Accuse HER of hitting on you!
Here’s what I mean…
The next time you’re talking to a woman, look for specific comments or body language traits which can be misconstrued. Then make a joke about how she is showing signs of wanting you. If you can say this comment in a funny & playful manner, you’ll create an entire dynamic about how she’s trying to hit on you.
Then during certain points in the conversation, you should mention how she REALLY likes you and is being obvious about her attempts “to seduce you”. Furthermore you can tell her that you MIGHT consider going home with her if she “doesn’t do anything to screw it up”.
Now there is a key principle behind using this technique. Whenever you implement it, you must have mental congruence where you actually develop that attitude that she truly DOES want you. If you approach every interaction with the attitude that a woman has feelings for you, then it’ll be easy to display a confident and funny attitude around her.
Women love this!
Now if you’re having trouble thinking of what to say, here’s an example:
- Her:”Well it’s getting late. I think I should get home…”
- You:”Dude, I’m not that kind of guy. I don’t appreciate your ploy to get me back to your house and trying to take advantage of me.”
What’s funny about this technique is by accuse her of “wanting you”, she’ll actually start to develop these feelings. If you can add this dynamic to other body language and attraction building techniques, you’ll quickly build up some sexual chemistry between you and this woman. Then it’ll be easy to quickly make things more intimate.
Category : Openers
So if you want to get a woman attracted then you need to know how to open a conversation with her right? Well here’s a few pointers and examples that you can use next time you start a conversation with a woman. Something that will make her laugh or something that makes her think are the best way to start a conversation from my experience.
Here’s an example of some fun openers:
- Hey, I’m thinking of getting my hair cut, because I’m sick of this old boring one. If you could pick any guys haircut around here, which one would you give me? And it can’t be that guy over there with the bowl cut! Be nice.
- Who do you think wears more makeup? Gene Simmonds, or that old waitress over there?
As you can see they’re both light hearted and slightly cheeky.
An example of of some openers to get her thinking:
- Excuse me, I need a female opinion…who do you think lies more, men or women? My friend says men but I think it’s women hands down.”
- I was talking to my friend the other day about astrology, and I want to get a woman’s opinion…do you think a persons star sign effects their personality, or do you think that just a load of crap?
The key thing to remember when approaching a women is not to look like you’re desperate or wanting something from her. Of Course all women know in the back of their mind that the reason you’re coming over to speak to them is because you’re interested in them.
A good way to approach women is from the side casually, with confidence (not head on), and just treat her like someone to share a joke or a conversation with. You’ll be surprised at how receptive most women are when you casually approach them like this.
Just remember, the idea is to start a conversation, not to crack off a one liner and expect her to be all over you. The follow up is just as important, if you use something interesting as an opener, the follow up shouldn’t be hard at all and you’re off into the next step of building attraction with her.
Category : Help with Pick Up
Hey guys I was just browsing through youtube this morning and I came across this video on approach anxiety. These guys might seem alittle strange but they give some great advice on how you can overcome your approach anxiety. Make sure you watch this as its really helpful.
Category : Help with Pick Up
You would be surprised how obvious some of these signals are but still most men never pick up on them or realise she was interested too late. Why miss out on a good chance to approach a women if shes already attracted to you?
Here’s a small list of IOIs (indicators of interest) that will help you see when shes interested in you and give you the go ahead to approach her.
OK firstly lets start with what she says:
- She tries to end a silence between the two of you.
- She initiates contact with you.
- She wants to find out more about you; ex – Asks about your age/where you’re from/what fragrance you’re wearing/where you got your clothes from.
- Asks if you have a girlfriend. (Told you some of these were pretty obvious)
Now what she does:
- she plays with her hair while shes talking to you.
- You can sense jealousy when you mention another female around her.
- She leans in while talking to you.
- She makes eye contact then smiles at you.
Finally some signals that mean you should be able to get her number atleast pretty darn easily:
- she puts her hand on your leg.
- Trying to grab your attention constantly.
- Licks her lips when talking to you. (Normally a sign she wants you to kiss her)
You might think some of these sound a little stupid but you will be surprised how often you see women giving off these signals around guys. So being able to spot them is a must when your talking to a girl, otherwise how will you be able to see if you’re building attraction with her or heading towards the “lets just be friends” group of guys?
One last thing also. Women will often give off 1 or 2 of these IOIs (indicators of interest) by accident so what you need to do is look out for bursts of them or if shes giving you these signals constantly. So if you see a lot of them then you know shes attracted to you and its time to approach her or start building rapport with her.
