Knowing how to deal with failure should be an important thing to learn when it comes to attracting women. My advice is to get used to failure and learn from each experience. In fact by taking the time to look back on your interactions with women you’ll be able to assess what went well and what didn’t go so good which will help you improve.
Like everything else you learn in life there is a certain skill to attracting wome. While some are naturals at it most sadly have to develop this skill.
One of the most important skills you need to learn to carry is the ability to hold a conversation. If you can’t hold a conversation , how can you build attraction?
So here’s a few different things that will help you build your conversation skills:
- Work on telling her interesting stories. (again if you can’t think of anything see the link above)
- Know how to project yourself in a slightly cocky and funny way when you’re talking to her.
- Learn how to tease a woman the right way and spark attraction.
Just like anything it will take a little while to get this right so don’t give up if things don’t go great at first.
The best way to talk to a woman from my personal experience is to use flattery. Now a lot of guys use this the wrong way, don’t say she has a nice body or eyes or any of physical characteristic’s. This shows her you’re only her appearance and not “what she’s about”.
The best way to use flattery is to comment on something she can control. A good example would be to say the way she dresses. When complimenting her on an outfit, it;ll flatter her taste in clothing and demonstrate an approval of her style of clothing. It’s also a subtle way of telling her you’re attracted to her, it’s telling her she’s attractive without coming out and saying it.
Posted by Jacob | Posted on 09-01-2010
Category : Openers
Tags: Conversation Starters, Pick Up
So if you want to get a woman attracted then you need to know how to open a conversation with her right? Well here’s a few pointers and examples that you can use next time you start a conversation with a woman. Something that will make her laugh or something that makes her think are the best way to start a conversation from my experience.
Here’s an example of some fun openers:
- Hey, I’m thinking of getting my hair cut, because I’m sick of this old boring one. If you could pick any guys haircut around here, which one would you give me? And it can’t be that guy over there with the bowl cut! Be nice.
- Who do you think wears more makeup? Gene Simmonds, or that old waitress over there?
As you can see they’re both light hearted and slightly cheeky.
An example of of some openers to get her thinking:
- Excuse me, I need a female opinion…who do you think lies more, men or women? My friend says men but I think it’s women hands down.”
- I was talking to my friend the other day about astrology, and I want to get a woman’s opinion…do you think a persons star sign effects their personality, or do you think that just a load of crap?
The key thing to remember when approaching a women is not to look like you’re desperate or wanting something from her. Of Course all women know in the back of their mind that the reason you’re coming over to speak to them is because you’re interested in them.
A good way to approach women is from the side casually, with confidence (not head on), and just treat her like someone to share a joke or a conversation with. You’ll be surprised at how receptive most women are when you casually approach them like this.
Just remember, the idea is to start a conversation, not to crack off a one liner and expect her to be all over you. The follow up is just as important, if you use something interesting as an opener, the follow up shouldn’t be hard at all and you’re off into the next step of building attraction with her.
