Meeting the right kind of woman can often be a difficult thing. We all know it’s easy to walk into your local bar and have plenty of women to choose from, it’s hard to find one that matches your personality and share’s similar common interests. This is made even harder if you aren’t looking for the party girl type of woman.

So where do you go to meet more laid back women that don’t spend every night of the weekend in a bar or out dancing?

Some good places I’ve came across are:

Wine tasting

Hopefully you like wine or this might not be your thing. I’ve met some really interesting women while being at a wine tasting event. If you’re not familiar with wine tasting events, they’re events organized by a club or business as a way to get people to judge different wines while being able to meet and get to know different people. What’s great about wine tasting events is you get to enjoy a fun hobby while getting the chance to engage people in conversation, the alcohol also makes it easier for you to approach women.

Libraries

This might sound like an odd place to meet a girl but it can be a pretty good place if you know what to look for. A lot of people go to libraries to study or research, but you can still find a good number of women who like to just browse the shelves and look at different books. As long as you find women that aren’t preoccupied, you can start a conversation with her without being to forward.

Dinner clubs

I’m not sure if you’ve ever been to a dinner club? I hadn’t been to one until a friend asked me to join him one night a few months back. Anyway the focus of these groups are to bring compatible people based on things such as age/interests/backgrounds for dinner and conversations. One good thing about dinner clubs is you get to meet a number of people (not only women) and make an instant connection in a laid back atmosphere. You can also engage women in a conversation without having that feeling of pressure you normally get with a date.

Of course there are loads of places to meet women such as charity events, museums and art galleries etc. These are just 3 that have worked well for me that maybe aren’t as common as some other places.