Having the proper body language when flirting women is a must. Before a woman will give you her phone number or even think about going home with her, you need to have built attraction and rapport with her. By having the right kind of body language you’ll be able to increase your success with her.

So how do you develop the right kind of body language that will draw in women?

I’ve broken i down in to a few easy steps:

1. Develop a positive attitude and ambiance

Your overall demeanor is the most important step to developing the proper body language in flirting. This means having fun in your conversation and genuinely enjoying her company. If you take the time to make sure you’re having fun, this attitude will be obvious in any interaction with a woman.

2. Carry yourself in a confident manner

A strong a confident personality will always attract women, so when you approach a woman and engage her in a conversation, take the time to ensure you come across confident. Even if you don’t feel confident, keep practicing till you can at the very least fake it.

3. Lightly touch her during your interactions

A simple way to quickly build attraction is to lightly touch women during your conversations. By breaking the “touching barrier”, you’re basically subconsciously showing her that you have some attraction to her. But if she pulls away or looks upset, don’t touch her again. This pretty much means she doesn’t want you to touch her. (This can change so don’t worry too much if she pulls away at first)

4. Keep your concentration on what she is saying

You might be surprised but so many guys make the huge mistake that is letting their mind wander or thinking about how to “get into a woman’s pants”. When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re listening to what she is saying. If you let your mind drift, she’ll probably pick up on the fact you’re not listening and will get annoyed with you. Concentrate on what she is saying and let her know that you’re listening.