Here’s some great videos I found while browsing youtube this morning. It’s alittle long (I think just over 20 minute’s) but this stuff gives out some great in info that will really help you figure out what attracts women.
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Meeting the right kind of woman can often be a difficult thing. We all know it’s easy to walk into your local bar and have plenty of women to choose from, it’s hard to find one that matches your personality and share’s similar common interests. This is made even harder if you aren’t looking for the party girl type of woman.
So where do you go to meet more laid back women that don’t spend every night of the weekend in a bar or out dancing?
Some good places I’ve came across are:
Wine tasting
Hopefully you like wine or this might not be your thing. I’ve met some really interesting women while being at a wine tasting event. If you’re not familiar with wine tasting events, they’re events organized by a club or business as a way to get people to judge different wines while being able to meet and get to know different people. What’s great about wine tasting events is you get to enjoy a fun hobby while getting the chance to engage people in conversation, the alcohol also makes it easier for you to approach women.
Libraries
This might sound like an odd place to meet a girl but it can be a pretty good place if you know what to look for. A lot of people go to libraries to study or research, but you can still find a good number of women who like to just browse the shelves and look at different books. As long as you find women that aren’t preoccupied, you can start a conversation with her without being to forward.
Dinner clubs
I’m not sure if you’ve ever been to a dinner club? I hadn’t been to one until a friend asked me to join him one night a few months back. Anyway the focus of these groups are to bring compatible people based on things such as age/interests/backgrounds for dinner and conversations. One good thing about dinner clubs is you get to meet a number of people (not only women) and make an instant connection in a laid back atmosphere. You can also engage women in a conversation without having that feeling of pressure you normally get with a date.
Of course there are loads of places to meet women such as charity events, museums and art galleries etc. These are just 3 that have worked well for me that maybe aren’t as common as some other places.
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Hey guys I was just browsing through youtube this morning and I came across this video on approach anxiety. These guys might seem alittle strange but they give some great advice on how you can overcome your approach anxiety. Make sure you watch this as its really helpful.
Category : Help with Pick Up
You would be surprised how obvious some of these signals are but still most men never pick up on them or realise she was interested too late. Why miss out on a good chance to approach a women if shes already attracted to you?
Here’s a small list of IOIs (indicators of interest) that will help you see when shes interested in you and give you the go ahead to approach her.
OK firstly lets start with what she says:
- She tries to end a silence between the two of you.
- She initiates contact with you.
- She wants to find out more about you; ex – Asks about your age/where you’re from/what fragrance you’re wearing/where you got your clothes from.
- Asks if you have a girlfriend. (Told you some of these were pretty obvious)
Now what she does:
- she plays with her hair while shes talking to you.
- You can sense jealousy when you mention another female around her.
- She leans in while talking to you.
- She makes eye contact then smiles at you.
Finally some signals that mean you should be able to get her number atleast pretty darn easily:
- she puts her hand on your leg.
- Trying to grab your attention constantly.
- Licks her lips when talking to you. (Normally a sign she wants you to kiss her)
You might think some of these sound a little stupid but you will be surprised how often you see women giving off these signals around guys. So being able to spot them is a must when your talking to a girl, otherwise how will you be able to see if you’re building attraction with her or heading towards the “lets just be friends” group of guys?
One last thing also. Women will often give off 1 or 2 of these IOIs (indicators of interest) by accident so what you need to do is look out for bursts of them or if shes giving you these signals constantly. So if you see a lot of them then you know shes attracted to you and its time to approach her or start building rapport with her.
