Flirty Body Language

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Posted by Jacob | Posted on 02-02-2010

Category : Flirting

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Having the proper body language when flirting women is a must. Before a woman will give you her phone number or even think about going home with her, you need to have built attraction and rapport with her. By having the right kind of body language you’ll be able to increase your success with her.

So how do you develop the right kind of body language that will draw in women?

I’ve broken i down in to a few easy steps:

1. Develop a positive attitude and ambiance

Your overall demeanor is the most important step to developing the proper body language in flirting. This means having fun in your conversation and genuinely enjoying her company. If you take the time to make sure you’re having fun, this attitude will be obvious in any interaction with a woman.

2. Carry yourself in a confident manner

A strong a confident personality will always attract women, so when you approach a woman and engage her in a conversation, take the time to ensure you come across confident. Even if you don’t feel confident, keep practicing till you can at the very least fake it.

3. Lightly touch her during your interactions

A simple way to quickly build attraction is to lightly touch women during your conversations. By breaking the “touching barrier”, you’re basically subconsciously showing her that you have some attraction to her. But if she pulls away or looks upset, don’t touch her again. This pretty much means she doesn’t want you to touch her. (This can change so don’t worry too much if she pulls away at first)

4. Keep your concentration on what she is saying

You might be surprised but so many guys make the huge mistake that is letting their mind wander or thinking about how to “get into a woman’s pants”. When you’re talking to a woman, make sure you’re listening to what she is saying. If you let your mind drift, she’ll probably pick up on the fact you’re not listening and will get annoyed with you. Concentrate on what she is saying and let her know that you’re listening.

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Leaving Her Breathless

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Posted by Jacob | Posted on 23-01-2010

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Being the type of guy that can leave women breathless seems almost untrue and only a few guys have the ability to do it. This isn’t necessarily true, though it can seem this way at times. One thing that I notice regular when I have a conversation or a discussion with a guy that just doesn’t seem to be having an easy time attracting women is that kind of live in a box of sorts.

What do I mean by this?

Many guys kind of have a standard view on what it is that attracts a woman and if they don’t have those qualities or they don’t fit that image, they assume that they cannot attract a woman or that certain kinds of women are off limits to them.

If you want to be the kind of guy that leaves a woman breathless, then you have to snap out of that kind of thinking immediately! It’s not going to do you any good to think that you are not good enough or you don’t have the ability to attract women and that somehow other guys do.

Here are a few tips that should show you how to leave a woman breathless:

1. Women are attracted to men that have a healthy amount of self esteem.

If you do trap yourself into the box, thinking that you don’t have the money or the looks or the body type to attract women, then you definitely need a quick boost to your self esteem. Most men don’t want to admit that they could use a boos to their self esteem, but if you want things to improve, then you have to get past this.

2. You have to be able to take a woman by SURPRISE.

This is where the average kind of guy actually does have the upper hand. It’s much easier for you to take a woman by surprise if you are not the best looking or the richest guy she meets. How do you take a woman by surprise? It’s easy. Just do the opposite of what the other guys do. If she’s really good looking, then she is probably used to men that kind of dote on her for no reason. Just being the kind of man that actually makes her “earn” your attention will take her by surprise.

3. You have to learn how to “sell” yourself.

Most guys don’t think of it this way, but when you first meet a woman, you have to sell yourself. Of course, this is not for money, but this is to show her who you are. See, when you are able to confidently approach a woman and immediately get her talking, and get her flirting, you are in a sense selling yourself. She’s going to see you in a much better light and you will immediately raise your odds at getting her. And the better job you do, the more likely it is that she will be left feeling breathless.

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Flirting With Women

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Posted by Jacob | Posted on 21-01-2010

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It’s pretty simple. Guys that know how to flirt with a woman effectively are much more likely to have a fulfilling and enjoyable time with their personal lives. If you don’t know how to flirt with women, then the opposite will also be true. You will end up disappointed and frustrated when you don’t end up getting the female attention that you crave and desire for. You might find yourself searching for magic flirting techniques, hoping that they will be the answer to all of your problems with women.

Unfortunately, they rarely exist. On the flip side, though, flirting with a woman is really not that hard at all. Knowing a few simple concepts, you can choose any women that you want, flirt with her, and end up with her hanging by your side. Not a bad spot to be in, wouldn’t you say?

So, how can you learn how to flirt with a woman the right way and leave her feeling hot for you?

Well I made this blog to share with guys what attracts women so let me give you some tips..

Cause controversy with her.

Most guys end up being all too agreeable when they are with a women. Don’t budge if she says something and you think the opposite. One of the worst things that you can do is try to be a man that just nods his head at whatever she says. Show her that you have your own opinion and ideas. More often than not, this will get her attention, as she is not used to this, but also she is being challenged. Women love to be challenged by a man.

Notice the world around you.

Point out what’s going on around you and her. You can easily find things to joke about and share a luagh with a woman, which is ALWAYS a good thing. Also, you get to start to get a good idea on how she thinks about things. Just because she is attractive, does not mean you should not also get to know her as well.

Surprise her by causing sexual tension with a woman.

Of course, this will be a pleasant surprise for her. If you cause sexual tension with a women and make sure that you do it the right way, you can easily get her attention. The fact is, if you want to be more to her than just a friend, you have to cross the line at some point and cause sexual tension with a girl.

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